Six Crucial Lessons to Becoming and Staying a Trusted Advisor
In a recent phone call I told the CEO of my insurance brokerage that after being a loyal customer for 15 years I had moved all my business to other providers. Given our long-standing relationship, I felt I owed him an explanation; not because I wanted to see someone fired, but because I wanted him to know my reasons for leaving so he could put any lessons learned to use.
It started about seven years ago when the person stated to my business insurance seemed to lose interest in me. He wasnt on top of my renewals, made me do work that he could have done for me, and didnt competitively bid my insurance. I moved all of my business insurance to another agency. A similar issue happened in the past year with my personal insurance; I simply didnt feel that I was important to my agent. The final nail in the coffin came when my bank notified me that my homeowners insurance had lapsed two months earlier without any notification from my insurance agent. I then reached out to another agency, who quickly bound coverage for me at 10 p.m. on a Saturday evening.
While the CEO of the original brokerage wasnt happy that I moved my insurance business in other places, he was grateful I took the time to calmly and constructively give him feedback. We ended the call on a very cordial observe, and I am confident that if we ever ran into each other at a coffee shop wed shake hands and exchange regards.
I open with this story because for years I considered him and the agents at his company as trusted advisors. I openly shared my personal and business goals with them and believed they advised with my best interests at heart. But after a time I realized I didnt feel important to them, and my personal and specialized interests were no longer their dominant concern. The people who were at one time my trusted advisors now had exactly none of my business.
So whats a trusted advisor? In my four decades in business Ive boiled it down to six crucial principles:
Intently listens then thoughtfully acts – A trusted advisor takes the time to listen to the client, understand their perspective, and ask clarifying questions before drawing conclusions or providing advice. Never breaches confidences – A trusted advisor needs to provide an ecosystem where the client knows sensitive information will not be discussed with others. Relationships can be irreparably harmed with just one confidence breach. Advises on what s/he knows, admits what s/he doesnt know – A trusted advisor is confident in his/her abilities and skillsets, and freely admits when something is outside of his/her skill area. Always keeps commitments – A trusted advisor always follows by on commitments when and how the client expects. Is courageously, respectfully candid – A trusted advisor doesnt need to tell the client what they want to hear; but should courageously and respectfully tell the client what they need to hear. The trusted advisors job is to say what s/he thinks; the clients job is to decide what to do with it. Takes the initiative with the client – A trusted advisor ensures time with the client is purposeful and productive, and resulting actions are followed up. Being a trusted advisor isnt something clients (in spite of of whether theyre internal or external to your organization) automatically grant; it takes a track record of demonstrating these six principles by actions that elevate someone to trusted advisor position. Following are six crucial lessons Ive learned about what it takes become and continue as a trusted advisor:
The last impression is just as important as the first – Sure, setting a positive first impression is basic to becoming a trusted advisor. However, every impression made thereafter is equally important. A great trusted advisor is consistent in the impressions s/he makes with a client. Whether its the first, second or hundredth impression, the trusted advisor is consistent in his/her level of performance and the client comes to expect great service. Treat the client like they are your most important client – If you take someone on as a client its your job to make them feel important. The client doesnt care about other clients you serve and how much or little business they represent. Your job is to provide the agreed-upon sets while making the client know their business matters to you. Focus on problems first then sales will follow – When I meet with a new client I ask them to think about the biggest three issues that keep them awake at night. During our meeting I am very up-front about the problems I think I can help with and those that are outside my wheelhouse. My ability to focus on the clients problems and then determine if/how I can best help sets my foundation as a trusted advisor and secures consulting engagements. Align your urgency to the clients urgency – In my opening story my new insurance advisor understood the urgency of binding my homeowners insurance quickly. He aligned his urgency to mine and got the job done. Im now a raving fan. Follow up 100 percent of the time – This ones really easy; if you say youre going to do something by a specific date, for Petes sake do it. If theres a good reason you cant keep a commitment by an agreed-upon date, notify them as early as possible. Letting a due date come and go without any notification not only erodes your credibility but could also impact downstream activities that are dependent on your deliverable. Dont hammer screws – You may have heard the phrase, If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail. Your job as a trusted advisor is to know what youre good at and what youre not, then focus on solving problems youre best qualified to solve. Overselling your skill to take on work youre not qualified to do is akin to trying to hammer screws. Youve got the wrong tools for the job and can create problems for both yourself and the client when youre ill-equipped to solve the clients problem. Becoming a trusted advisor is something thats earned by behaviors and actions and can be quickly stripped away if taken for granted. Keep these lessons in mind to help you not just reach trusted advisor position, but keep it.
Bạn phải đăng nhập để gửi phản hồi.